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Gold Digger - Kanye West - Friday, Jan. 20, 2006
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Alexis' Girl Talk Radio was founded in Oct. 2004 by me, your host Alexis. It was inspired by Brynn Baker, a fellow student at Purdue University who thought that I should have my own radio show. It was originally at the home of Facebook.com but because of privacy and a lot of unnecessary confusion, it was pulled from the site by me. However, after sitting in the beauty shop over Chrismas break, I was compelled to bringing Girl Talk back from the dead. I hope you enjoy this site where we are able to do many more things and feel free to speak your mind. Welcome to Alexis' Girl Talk Radio!!
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Let's Wait a While - Janet Jackson
...written on Friday, Jan. 13, 2006, @ 9:57 P.M.
Greetings Ladies
Ladies, where is our dignity? Is it where our integrity is? What about our self-esteem? Honestly, do we fully carry out the duties and accept our responsibilities when it comes to us and these words? Do these words have any meaning to you, if any? I’m asking us these questions because I made a funny observation. Prior to me giving you today’s thought; please allow me to suggest this theory. Before the early –to – mid nineties, what types of relationships did people have? Did they cordially date? Did that seriously date? Were the women opened to welcoming other women dating their man? Or, did they just have sexual relationships? Now, let’s fast forward. What types of relationships do we have? Do we cordially date? Do we easily accept other women in our man’s lives? Do we just have sexual relationships? Are we just sex puppets to the “important men” in our lives?
Remember yesterday’s topic, “What if?” and the importance of developing friendships prior to the relationships? Well ladies, that lesson will continue today. Please, be honest with yourself before drawing a conclusion to this. I honestly believe that we are the result of our own heartache and misery when it comes to our relationships. I believe that we give too much to these men, as if it’s automatic to receive all the benefits of our relationships without them technically having to put into the relationship to receive the “goodies” of that relationship. Let me say that again. WE ARE GIVING AWAY without demanding that these men have to work for the benefits of that relationship. Now, you may ask how that is – but I have an answer. How many of you are honestly sleeping with a guy that is NOT your boyfriend? How many of you have ever slept with a guy WITHOUT him being your boyfriend? How many of you have bought a guy something without him being your boyfriend? You see where I’m going? Now if you don’t believe me, feel free to ask someone older than me about this… but back in the day… women (such as our mothers, grandmothers – hopefully) made their men work for their attention. Men bust their asses to get “with a girl” and getting with a girl is not meaning sexually either. I mean, just to get a number, a date, a something. And even then, she still probably rolled her eyes and laughed at the though of him. But now, somewhere along the lines we lost our self-worth and turned into the hoes that the rappers are all laughing about. I’m not saying we ARE hoes, but I’m saying we’re ACTING like some hoes. We are acting like some groupies who are desperate for somebody’s attention, like we’re incompetent of being good enough for somebody who is ACTUALLY WORTH our time of day. Half of these niggas that we break our backs for, check up on, keep tabs on, waste our VALUABLE money on, risk going to hell for (for fornication) and the list goes on… only for a dude to NOT BE YOUR MAN! Then, to make matters worse, when he FINALLY decides to BE your man… he’s playing you for somebody else! Ladies, I believe sincerely that we are in denial about the status of our relationships. We pretend and lie to ourselves that everything is cool in front of our friends but deep inside you KNOW the nigga is playing you! Then, what is even more upsetting is that when you KNOW he’s playing you, you busy trying to dig up dirt on the “new girl” –that’s probably being everything that you weren’t because you’re busy being his hoe – instead of kicking his ass to the curb! Do you see where I’m getting? Then, to make the scenario worse, AFTER you should have been DONE with the dude, you’re all boo’d up, and back on the phone caking with his ass, smiling like nothing EVER happened!! Ladies, I’m not going to preach right now because I’m bursting a sweat. I just wanted to let that marinate for a while… and while you think about how silly we are looking to these dudes, I’m going to tell you to stay tune for the next topic, “Another Relationship”
God is love... love ya much!!