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Another Relationship - Syleena Johnson
...written on Sunday, Jan. 15, 2006, @ 3:04 A.M.
Greetings Ladies
This song really hits home as I reflect upon the useless "relationships" with now unfamiliar people in my life. I had to ask myself, not only why did I tolerate being in those types of relationships, but why do WE tolerate those types of relationships? You know the types of relationships when you know that you’re competing for your man’s undivided attention with someone else. That has now become one of my major “no-no’s” luckily for me. However, at that time, I didn’t know any better other than to accept it. I used to think that it was cool to be constantly compared to his ex-girlfriends because I thought that it simply meant that we had similar characteristics and that he dated girls who were all like me; WRONG! That just meant that he wanted for me to be just like her that’s why he always said, “That’s what so-and-so does, said, or thought”. It irritated because I was never my own person. But… I settled by waiting and convincing myself of all of the stupid “What-if’s” and remained in that setting. Then, before I could refocus my vision on us, this nigga had upped and started a family WIHTOUT ME… again! Even still to this day, years later- every now and then… I’ll hear my cell phone ringing, turn to it to find it says “DON’T ANSWER CALL” programmed under his number. We have nothing to discuss any longer. Or what about those relationships with the chaotic baby momma drama? The set is that she clearly knows of you and you clearly know of her but never disrespectfully intertwined but you know at any given moment you’re ready to fight for your man… I know it’s childish but ladies, let be honest with ourselves because I know I’m not the only one who has had these feelings. The point that I’m getting to is why do we settle for these types of relationships figuring that love will save the day when it really won’t. Why do we ask questions that we really don’t want to know the answers to? And when we have our answers, we falter on changing our mind for what’s best for us? As Angelina Jolie said in Mr. & Mrs. Smith, “happy endings are for stories that haven’t ended yet.” So why do we assume that if we can ride out the storm in our homes when everyone is telling us to evaluate, we stay… hoping that after the storm will be a happy ending. When will we put ourselves first and put our feet down against the miscellaneous bullshit that we drag ourselves into by not just saying no? We swear up and down that if we leave then we’ll miss our long lost shot at being happily, in love, two point five kids with a dog and a white picket fence with our house on the hill but we won’t. We’re probably missing out on something real by staying in bad relationships for no reason. And especially if there is someone new in the picture taking and breaking the bond that you’ve built with someone over the years and strengthened with your own blood sweat and tears, then… I’m sorry to tell you this but that negro doesn’t give a damn about you! I used to find myself saying we can’t be this – that – or the third because we “loved” each other too much but that was just a bullshit excuse I was giving myself to prevent myself from feeling upset. Still to this day, I’m not upset. I just realized that we were two kids attracted to each other and that was that. No love lost. As my girl Bee put it, “me, myself, and I is all I got in the end!” and that’s at the end of each and everyone of our stories at the end of the day. All we have honestly is ourselves. We need to count on us to pick the pieces up and to put them back together again. We need to count on us to create the happy ending in our lives for us because if we’ll wait on some nigga to do that for us, we’ll be disappointed every time!
Stay tuned for “Here we go”….
God is love... love ya much!!