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Gold Digger - Kanye West
...written on Friday, Jan. 20, 2006, @ 8:52 A.M.
Greetings Ladies
This was a hot topic on the original girl talk, so I decided to bring it back. The topic was "Are you a jersey chaser" and it created a lot of heat. I decided to bring it back to the light because it's definitely something that needs to be re-addressed! By me coming from a (two) black schools to a prodominately white school, I am able to compare and contrast the differences a little bit more better than those who have never been to either or. I know when I went to a black school, the athletic departments were WACK! So the females were more acceptable to being a letter chaser. However, by me being at a white school, I am able to say that we're not just jersey chasers but that we are simply motivated by status. Why is that? No matter how hard we may try to deny it, we ARE motivated by status. You don't have to be in college to see that and make that generalization either. If you live in an urban setting, typically what kinds of guys get all the attention? The drug dealers, or someone who appears to have some type of status associated with them rather it be their cars, clothes, or electronical gaggets. It is unfortunate that we are motivated by status for the fact that we could be missing out on Mr. Right due to the fact that he could be a lame. Not only that... We're chasing a group of men who don't really want us! Although they may rant and rave about how they love black women, at the end of the day they will utter the thoughts of getting a white girl because "they are less assertive". So my question to you is, is it acceptable to be passive? Is it acceptable to be disrespected? Is it acceptable to be naive all for the sake of a number, fraternity symbols, and the possiblity of being the whore of a prominate athlete in the professional arena because that's exactly what we are. Now, I'm not saying you a gold digger...cuz you ain't messing with no broke niggaz.. BUT don't sit back and allow this man be disrespectful towards you, allow him to manipulate you, and live to tell about it by laughing at you. Do you even realize that often times, that IF these men are whores at your school that they are whores at other schools. What about their girlfriends that they supposed to love, honor, and charrish who are left back at home in the dark? It's definitely something to think about... I want to know if it's even worth the risk???
God is love... love ya much!!